There is a new production build from 12 hours ago. Please try it and see if the issue is still threre https://github.com/CarbonCommunity/Carbon.Core/releases
Regarding your question, it is a very difficult and there is not clear answer to it.
In the past, Oxide has proven to be pretty reliable and all you want is reliability, then I personally would stick to oxide.
Carbon has many nice features though and is more modern and convenient. If you want or need some these features then carbon is better in my opinion.